Dear reader, God rejoices when married couples remain united until death do them part. Therefore, it is better not to divorce.
Separation displeases God.
First of all, it is important to know that divorce displeases God. Let us listen to what our Lord Jesus Christ said on this subject:
3 Some Pharisees came to him [Jesus Christ] to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?”
4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’[a] 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’[b]? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
Matthew 19:3-6
Separation is costly.
Second, divorce is expensive, with costs from legal fees, and the need to support two separate households.
Reduced standard of living.
Third, divorce leads to a reduced standard of living because the same income must now support two households. This often requires downsizing and can lead to financial hardship.
Division of assets.
Furthermore, divorce leads to the division of assets. Property, savings, and debt must be divided, a process that can be complex and contentious.
Mental health struggles.
Additionally, divorce often causes emotional and psychological stress, leading to depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues.
Grief and loneliness.
Also, after divorce individuals may experience grief, loneliness, and a sense of loss.
Identity crisis.
After divorce, some individuals may struggle with an identity crisis, especially if they have been in the marriage for a long time.
Tension and resentment.
Moreover, the process of divorce can create long-term tension, resentment, and conflict with the ex-spouse.
Impact on children.
After divorce children often become confused, scared, or blame themselves. They may experience academic, behavioral, or psychological problems.
Fractured family life
Holidays and family traditions change, and children must navigate two separate homes. The addition of step-parents and step-siblings can also be challenging.
Strained family connections.
The decision to divorce can strain relationships with children, parents, and extended family, who may react with disappointment, blame, or anger.
